I left the classroom that day thinking about the sisters and thinking about my daughters and unconditional love. As my oldest daughter was heading off to college, I told her about that day with the sisters and how it had affected me so deeply and that I should do a documentary on the sisters. She responded with, "You should dad."
When I initially told one of the sisters about that day in the school, she was very surprised because it was a natural part of their life's fabric to support one another. I wanted to tell their story. I believe a documentarian is not interpreting, but recording history. In my fictional film work, you interpret through words, light, composition and the way you move the camera, along with a host of other factors. In a documentary you are trying to convey a story-for instance, the black & white clips I created to take the viewer momentarily back in time. I did not want to get in the way of the story-whatever happens in the moment happens; the sisters told their story with little fuss.
Trust is so imperative and the sisters and I knew from the beginning that Mary had to feel comfortable and trust me. Mary has an innate sense about people that is razor sharp. So, it was just me filming week after week. Mary and I would start the day often singing songs from a musical that she loved. It was quite fun. I'm grateful, so grateful, for the way Mary's father and mother, Earl and Marion, showed the world what it is to stand up for what you believe in and live your live with grace and dignity. Getting to know Mary, Kathy, Nora and their mother and father through the filming of "This Is My Sister" has profoundly changed my life. Before I began this film, I had my definition of what unconditional love was. Once I met the sisters, that definition was redefined. My greatest hope for "This is My Sister" is for the viewer to walk away as I have, knowing that love is the greatest leveler of life. With it, you hold the key to the universe...and without it, the stars above are just flickering lights without a soul.
Frank G. Caruso
Writer - Director